Nightlife/Clubbing Social Skills: Style vs Fashion

The definition of style states that its a distinctive quality, form, or type of something. This something we are talking about has to do with clothing.

Todays topic we discuss about style vs fashion. We already know what style means so lets examine Fashion: the prevailing style (as in dress) during a particular time (2): a garment in such a style c: social standing or prominence especially as signalized by dress or conduct.

If your out there wearing all the hottest trends in clothing like ed hardy shirts or smet etc..then you are fashionable. Believe me there is nothing wrong with that but the only draw back to that is that your just like all the masses. Your just a very fashionable person.

On the other hand its quite hard/easy to come up with your own style. Take me for example. In high school my thing was to wear sweater vest. I had all sorts of colors from green to red from different brands. That was my style. I was known for that. Now I moved up to dress vests. Thats what everyone usually associates me with when I go out. Thats my style.

I suggest you find a style that your comfortable with. Wear your personality. If your a madd niggerish kind a dude rock some FUBU. That can be your style, the dude that always wears FUBU at the club..haha. Or if your a Lumber Jack and you want people to know it, go ahead and rock Wrangler Jeans and a red checkered flannel. Shit I dont know, but you get the idea right?

Its so important for you to make yourself distinguishable from the everyone but at the same time look debonair. Think about how the mating rituals work in the animal kingdom. Usually the male that has the most colorful skin or most distinctive feature will usually win the females attention ultimately resulting in the horizontal mambo. Well that concept applies with humans too but its a bit more complicated than that.

When your out, the first thing people will judge you on is appearance. You need to stand out. You can be fashionable in this instance, but usually style wins out. People will be able to distinguish you better the next time around. Females take notice to these things. There always watching and sizing you up. Thats why its important for you to look dapper all the time.

Either be Fashionable or have some sort of Style. Either one will do, but I'm slighty baised towards style. Give yourself the best chance you can. Now when you combine style/fashion with some self confidence, now were talking about another ball game. Thats a winning combination. Do work!