Best time to improve your game this holloween.

On October 31st you get to be whomever you want. It's your chance to adopt a whole new personality.Embrace it!

Think beyond just wearing a costume, gothe whole nine yards and develop a complete personain your mind about your character. Really go in-depth with the process of developing your suave alter ego. Find your characters mannerisms, quirks,discover his accent, and take the time to flesh outhis back story. Throw your comfort zone out the window, because tonight, you aren't you. This is your chance to experiment, to do things you'd never do and wear items you'd never wear. Eyeliner, a bold hat, tighter pants, and flashier shoes are all itemsthat your character would wear on a daily basis.

When approaching, imagine how your character would act...he doesn't have any of your limiting beliefs.Don't just dress as Zorro, become Zorro; embody hisconfidence and his competence. Know that you (Zorro) can say and do anything. Practice and internalize what that feels like, so you can recallthose feelings again when you go out and meet a sexy new friend. After Halloween is over, put away the costume, but hold on to the attitude and confidence of your fun,alter ego. Be bold, and remember how your characteracted. Then, throughout the holiday season of Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's celebrations, when you are in the field and you have a tinge of approach anxiety or can't imagine going for the kiss close, think to yourself "Well, what would my Halloween personality have done!" anddo it.

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"Girl-Friendly Costume" Recommendations
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Here is a quick list of costumes that fit perfectlythe advice found in this week's Weekend Wingman:

+ The roguish, never-takes-no-for-an-answer, pirate. Ladies love pirates!

+ 80's glam or hair metal rock star. Rock stars always attract tons of women!

+ And an ultra-male, slightly cocky, super hero. Bealpha, protect her from harm.

+ A giant teddy bear. The perfect costume to maximize your hugabilty rating.