5 Keys to Increasing Attraction in Your Relationships by Don Diego Garcia

Attraction Key #1: YOUR SMILE A great smile emits from your eyes, not your mouth. Theshowing of teeth with dead looking eyes would be more of a grimace than a smile. I'll never forget one time Iwas in Los Angeles and learned why they call it TinselTown. My waitress smiled at me, but her eyes were a vacant haze. It was forced. She was surely not thinkingtruly pleasant thoughts. Tinsel may be pretty at first,but it is inauthentic, and easily detectable as fake. Take the time to build a pleasant state of mind required to transmit warm, sincere smiles.

Attraction Key #2: YOUR LAUGH Laughter is the release of emotional tension. It's a great way to manage the emotional ups and downs that sometimes occur in life. If you and a girl are laughingtogether, you will be much more likely to want to see each other again. Generate laughter by saying and doingfunny things. You can fine tune your funny bone by listening to professional stand-up comedians. It's fineto enjoy the performance, but you also need to be listening with a new set of ears now. Listen with yourlearning mind to model the comedian's expressions, their word choice, their vocal intonations, their facial expressions and hand gestures.


Attraction Key #3: YOUR BANTER Banter is playful teasing. It's a funny way of making personal jokes with your partner. Banter shows that youare not boring and you are willing to extend outside your comfort zone of politeness. It tests the limits ofpropriety with amusing role play, sometimes even imitating your partner, by exaggerating their mannerisms. Banter is not serious; it injects a mood ofsilly levity into your interaction. If you have a romantic interest in your partner, you can sprinkle your banter with sensual innuendo. If your partner returns your banter with witty quips of her own, this is a good sign, keep the mood light and happy and play along.


Attraction Key #4: YOUR ENTERTAINMENT Who is she going to call when she wants to have fun? Ifyou want it to be you, combine the aspects of smiling,laughing, and banter, then mix in some activities that you can enjoy together. Try to make choices based on your commonalities. Do you like the same kind of music?Go to a concert. Are you both entertained by the same genre of film? See a movie together. Are you both entertained by the same kind of fine arts? Check out anart museum or gallery. Attraction Key #5: YOUR SHARED EXPERIENCES One of the highest levels of attraction is known as thepeak experience. Take her breath away. Find out what her thrill is and enjoy it together. Share a new adventure she has never had before. Give her a ride on the back of your motorcycle. Go parachuting together. Take her surfing, snowboarding, or rollerblading. Master this final attraction key and along with the rest you will surely be able to win her heart, mind, body and soul.